Tips To Get The Most Out Of A Divorce Lawyer First Consultation

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Many married couples have their own circumstances leading to divorce. While your divorce lawyer needs to know the basics, they are not a therapist and don't need to know the nitty-gritty.

If you are wondering what you need to take to your first meeting with a divorce lawyer and what they need to know, then you are not alone. This is a common question.

To ensure you make the most out of your initial divorce consultation, follow each of these tips.

Tip: Bring the Necessary Information to the Initial Consultation

To effectively consult with you about your upcoming divorce, your new lawyer needs some basic information about your married life. 

You should bring all of the following to your first meeting:

• Everyone in your immediate family's full names, addresses, and phone numbers
• Both your spouse's and your employer, occupation, and estimated annual income
• Copy of your marriage certificate
• Copy of the most recent bank account, investment, and retirement account statements
• A list of valuables and assets owned by either you or your spouse

In addition, you should bring along a list of any questions you have. Writing down a list before your first meeting ensures you won't leave having forgotten to ask any important questions.

Tip: Never Forget that Divorce is a Negotiation 

Divorce is a negotiation and sometimes a hostile one. For this reason, it is easy to get frustrated with the process and lash out in ways that will delay the finalization of the divorce.

It is important to take whatever time you need before you embark on the process with a lawyer to think about what you really want from the divorce.

For example:

• Is 50/50 child custody reasonable?
• Do you want the house?
• Do you require alimony to get back on your feet?

Ultimately, you need to know what you will fight for and what you are willing to let go of. If you are unwilling to be amicable, then your case will drag on and cost everyone a lot more money in legal bills and court fees.

Tip: Be Open and Honest About Your Marriage with Your Divorce Attorney

Finally, it's important to note that your divorce attorney works for you and is not there to judge you or your situation. They've likely seen much worse circumstances than yours. 

Even if you are embarrassed or normally a very private person, it's vital to be open and honest with your new attorney. Effective communication helps settle your divorce as quickly and as painlessly as possible. For more information, contact a divorce attorney near you.

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6 October 2022